I'm Curious, What Are You Thankful For? πŸ€”

image created by artist Emily Mamone in her Timbre of Darkness series of a girl with hands on her cheeks.

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Hey Reader,

This newsletter is hitting your inbox to provide you with insight, inspiration and perhaps even a little bit of entertainment. I want this to be a welcome weekly message that exists above the fray of today's overwhelming digital communication. Pure signal, no noise.

Special Note: I'm not about all that "toxic positivity" stuff that turns a blind eye to the very real struggles, atrocities and fights that are playing out on the streets of America right now. I assure you I am appalled, heartbroken and fully engaged in all the ways I believe I can bring about much needed change for the better. I choose to write these emails in an effort to create a safe place for you to take up space and have a soft place to land. In honor of Black History Month this is one of my favorite quotes from Martin Luther King Jr.

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"Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."
β€” Martin Luther King Jr

Whisper

Gratitude has a way of shifting our perception and improving our outlook. What are you thankful for?

Give This a Try: When days are long and times are tough it's really difficult to think about gratitude. It is much easier, and more common, to focus on the mess. The only way to change that is to engage in a little deliberate practice. Create opportunities as you start and end your day or whenever you feel like you need a breath of fresh air and take a moment to list 2 or 3 specific things you're grateful for. I'll go first:

  • I am thankful for the beautiful warm weather after that winter storm
  • I am grateful that my little gym was unexpectedly closed today because I decided to take a walk outside (where I enjoyed the warmer weather)
  • I appreciate my daughter's teacher. The kindness and care she consistently shows her is critical in these formative years.

Ok, now it's your turn. Take a breath, make a list, relax and repeat. And, if you're feeling the love, hit reply and send me your list ☺️

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How Do You Build An Iconic Brand? One Brick At A Time

Emily and I met in 2007 and our initial connection was over a shared love of photography. Initially we both thought we would meet and chat about photo shoots, lighting and camera gear but the universe had different plans. Sure we chatted about those things but we also quickly saw there was more to it than that. We were falling in love.

By the time we got married, just two short years later, we were working together on weddings, portrait sessions and the occasional passion project. It became clear that operating two photography brands just didn't make sense so we decided would would merge and create one ICONIC super brand that would acknowledge our shared past and represent our professional future.

We decided that the first item on our very long rebrand to do list was creating a name. Anyone who has ever named anything ever will tell you that this process is not simple, easy or quick.

I love a good white board so we stepped up to our oversized creative playground and started writing. We came up with some wildly creative ideas but none of them had that feeling you want when you're naming something this important...be it a baby, a boat or a business.

Early in the process we discussed maybe using our new shared last name and although we loved the idea, we decided to keep marinating on it. We tend to like to go through the process of "proving ourselves right" by considering all the options and whittling away the ones we don't want until we are faced with the reality that we were on to something way back when we started.

Interestingly, in this particular case, it wasn't so much us that proved we were on to something but rather our industry associates, clients and friends.

Throughout that week, as we worked to name our new iconic brand we attended a number of open houses, networking events, happy hours and client projects. Upon arrival, as we hugged and shook hands our community consistently referred to us as "The Mamones".

"Hey, The Mamones are here"

"Hello, how are The Mamones this week"

"What's going on in The Mamones world"

We took that as a sign. We registered the URL and immediately got to work on building our iconic brand and decided that, in contrast to Simon Sinek's notion to Start With WHY, we would Start With WHO and save the why for a bit later in the process.

It's been nearly 30 years since I graduated from college and accepted my first corporate job and almost 20 years since I became a business owner and entrepreneur. In all that time I've learned that bringing who you are to what you do is essential to your success as a career driven professional or entrepreneur. Acknowledging that means that it's critical that you know who you are, where you're from and what you are fiercely committed to now.

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Your unique brand is an extension of your authentic identity
β€” Don Mamone

Unfortunately, it's incredibly common to underestimate the connection between who you are and what you're building. In some cases it's ignored all together resulting in catastrophic results. Admittedly, it's hard work but, as with most things, it's worth it.

What about you: Is your brand truly authentic? Can you see yourself in your unique brand? Can you quickly and easily tell me why your clients are better off working with you than with your competition? Hit reply and tell me all about it.

Next Week: Brand strength, recognition and positioning...

Creative Corner

Passion projects are incredibly important to "an artist in service" to others. We love all of our clients and are excited about the projects we are hired to create and document but sometimes we get to do something that is just for us. Emily created one such photo session when we still had our brick and mortar studio. Entitled "Timbre of Darkness" she conceptualized the idea, created visually stunning images and even donated a gallery canvas to a place committed to supporting the LGBTQ+ community with mental health services. It's not often that someone can be both the artist and the muse. Emily creates beauty and inspires me every day.

I really am truly grateful for you and all that you are creating in this world! You found your way into my little orbit and have chosen to hang out in my little corner of the internet by opening, reading, reply and in some cases even sharing my words and thoughts. My life is better because you're in it even if that just means that once a week we occupy the space in your email inbox for a brief moment to take a deep breath, sigh in relief and emerge refreshed.

See you next week πŸ€—

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